Friedhelm (Counsellor)
ONLINE OPPORTUNITIES
There are three online services available. They are: 1) Marriage Courses (See SERVICE page). 2) Weekly personal contact regarding...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Aug 6, 2019
- 3 min
HOW DOES LOVE FEEL?
The answer to the question: What is love? can really become complicated and even confusing. However the question: How does love feel? is...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jun 17, 2019
- 3 min
Not over your "Ex"?
It is highly unlikely that you married your “first true” love. Remember the exciting days of passion and romantic moments? For the most...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Apr 16, 2019
- 2 min
Marriage problems are not solved spiritually
There is a misperception amongst Christians and churchgoers that marriage problems should be addressed and solved by a spiritual leader...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Apr 5, 2019
- 4 min
NO PLACE TO HIDE
We are all conditioned to believe we can successfully hide. We are skilled at hiding. We hide what we do, how we feel, and how we really...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 12, 2019
- 3 min
WHERE'S MY SWEET VALENTINE GONE?
Our choice of whom we marry is very seldom based on an informed decision. The choice of life partner is often solely made based on two...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 9, 2019
- 2 min
AFFAIR REPAIR
There is a good chance that your marriage will be threatened by a midlife-crisis. This is so because in the earlier years we conform to...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 7, 2019
- 3 min
ICE FOR JEALOUS-FEVER
Research indicate that jealousy stems from threats to self-esteem. The fear that someone we love may desert us for a rival. (Why jealousy...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 6, 2019
- 2 min
WHAT ABOUT PASTORAL COUNSELORS?
People looking for marriage counselors often need info regarding pastoral counselors. The following is a simplified picture giving an...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 5, 2019
- 3 min
CUT OFF YOUR NOSE TO SPITE YOUR FACE
There are certain unhealthy behavior patterns that will guarantee long-term failure in marriage. These patterns have to be confronted....
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 4, 2019
- 3 min
EXERCISES FOR A BROKEN OR JEALOUS HEART.
There are three exercises that will help getting your emotions balanced again. That is, if you can get yourself so far to do them...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 2, 2019
- 3 min
HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART?
In a song this question was answered with another question? “How can you stop the rain from falling down?” In other words mending a...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Feb 1, 2019
- 4 min
HOW TO FORCE YOUR SPOUSE TO CHANGE
No, this is not the wrong way of thinking. There comes a time that if you do not force an issue, you will end up paying a heavy price....
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 31, 2019
- 3 min
SAME SEX MARRIAGES: UNDERSTANDING WHERE MARRIAGE OFFICERS STAND
The issue of same sex marriages is a sensitive and emotional issue. It’s of the utmost importance that marriage officers don’t get...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 28, 2019
- 3 min
DON'T YOU GET IT?
When you hear someone say: "I trust nobody," all alarm bells should go off. It's like saying: "I have stopped eating altogether, for I...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 27, 2019
- 3 min
ROOT CANAL? NO?!
Ever had the pleasure of having your dentist perform a root canal? And how did that work for you? You probably tried to get out of that...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 25, 2019
- 2 min
DID NOT SEE THIS COMING?
This picture illustrates what most people discover after the wedding and honeymoon when normal life as a couple begins. There are not so...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 25, 2019
- 3 min
CAN ONE OUTGROW ONE'S SPOUSE?
We often hear a divorcee saying that they have separated because they have “outgrown” each other or just grown apart. Why is that? What...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 23, 2019
- 2 min
JEALOUSY MAKES YOU NASTY
There are a number of problems in a relationship that can be considered as marriage breaking issues. Jealousy is one of them. Most of the...
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Friedhelm (Counsellor)
- Jan 19, 2019
- 2 min
Why can’t people say “NO”?
“My spouse just can’t say no to the request or demands of others.” Have you heard this remark before? Does your spouse demand that you...
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