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ONLINE OPPORTUNITIES
There are three online services available. They are: 1) Marriage Courses (See SERVICE page). 2) Weekly personal contact regarding...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 13, 20191 min read
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HOW DOES LOVE FEEL?
The answer to the question: What is love? can really become complicated and even confusing. However the question: How does love feel? is...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Aug 6, 20193 min read
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Not over your "Ex"?
It is highly unlikely that you married your “first true” love. Remember the exciting days of passion and romantic moments? For the most...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jun 17, 20193 min read
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Marriage problems are not solved spiritually
There is a misperception amongst Christians and churchgoers that marriage problems should be addressed and solved by a spiritual leader...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Apr 16, 20192 min read
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NO PLACE TO HIDE
We are all conditioned to believe we can successfully hide. We are skilled at hiding. We hide what we do, how we feel, and how we really...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Apr 5, 20194 min read
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WHERE'S MY SWEET VALENTINE GONE?
Our choice of whom we marry is very seldom based on an informed decision. The choice of life partner is often solely made based on two...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 12, 20193 min read
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AFFAIR REPAIR
There is a good chance that your marriage will be threatened by a midlife-crisis. This is so because in the earlier years we conform to...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 9, 20192 min read
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ICE FOR JEALOUS-FEVER
Research indicate that jealousy stems from threats to self-esteem. The fear that someone we love may desert us for a rival. (Why jealousy...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 7, 20193 min read
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WHAT ABOUT PASTORAL COUNSELORS?
People looking for marriage counselors often need info regarding pastoral counselors. The following is a simplified picture giving an...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 6, 20192 min read
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CUT OFF YOUR NOSE TO SPITE YOUR FACE
There are certain unhealthy behavior patterns that will guarantee long-term failure in marriage. These patterns have to be confronted....

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 5, 20193 min read
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EXERCISES FOR A BROKEN OR JEALOUS HEART.
There are three exercises that will help getting your emotions balanced again. That is, if you can get yourself so far to do them...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 4, 20193 min read
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HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART?
In a song this question was answered with another question? “How can you stop the rain from falling down?” In other words mending a...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 2, 20193 min read
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HOW TO FORCE YOUR SPOUSE TO CHANGE
No, this is not the wrong way of thinking. There comes a time that if you do not force an issue, you will end up paying a heavy price....

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Feb 1, 20194 min read
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SAME SEX MARRIAGES: UNDERSTANDING WHERE MARRIAGE OFFICERS STAND
The issue of same sex marriages is a sensitive and emotional issue. It’s of the utmost importance that marriage officers don’t get...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 31, 20193 min read
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DON'T YOU GET IT?
When you hear someone say: "I trust nobody," all alarm bells should go off. It's like saying: "I have stopped eating altogether, for I...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 28, 20193 min read
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ROOT CANAL? NO?!
Ever had the pleasure of having your dentist perform a root canal? And how did that work for you? You probably tried to get out of that...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 27, 20193 min read
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DID NOT SEE THIS COMING?
This picture illustrates what most people discover after the wedding and honeymoon when normal life as a couple begins. There are not so...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 25, 20192 min read
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CAN ONE OUTGROW ONE'S SPOUSE?
We often hear a divorcee saying that they have separated because they have “outgrown” each other or just grown apart. Why is that? What...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 25, 20193 min read
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JEALOUSY MAKES YOU NASTY
There are a number of problems in a relationship that can be considered as marriage breaking issues. Jealousy is one of them. Most of the...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 23, 20192 min read
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Why can’t people say “NO”?
“My spouse just can’t say no to the request or demands of others.” Have you heard this remark before? Does your spouse demand that you...

Friedhelm (Counsellor)
Jan 19, 20192 min read
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